Cold networking dies on three patterns: a vague “let’s connect”, a 30-minute ask that takes 15, and flattery before the request that signals “I want something”. These 13 prompts force a different shape: one specific reason you picked this person (not a flattery line), a 10-15 min ask, a low-friction CTA, and a follow-up that adds new information instead of “just bumping this”. Includes variants for alumni DMs, podcast post-listen, career-switch, referral before vs after applying, and investor cold emails. For batch workflows that get 15-30% reply rates without sounding like a sales bot, see AI cold outreach for job hunting.
Best for
- LinkedIn cold DMs
- Cold emails to alumni and second-degree connections
- Job-search informational interviews
- Founder-to-founder intros and peer exchange
- Referral asks before and after applying
1. Alumni cold DM
Write a 90-word LinkedIn DM to a {school} alum who is now {role} at {company}. Reason for outreach: {reason}. Ask: 15-min informational call about {topic}. Mention 1 specific reason I picked them (not a flattery line).
2. Career-switch outreach
I am switching from {old field} to {new field}. Write a 100-word email to someone who made the same switch. Format: 1 line on where I am, 1 line on what I am stuck on, 1 ask (15-min call), 1 sentence on why them specifically.
3. After-podcast outreach
I listened to {person} on {podcast}. Write an 80-word DM that references one specific point they made, ties it to my situation, and asks for a 10-min call. No "huge fan of your work".
4. Founder-to-founder outreach
I am a {stage} founder building {product}. Write a 90-word email to {target founder} for peer-to-peer call. Frame: not asking for help, asking for mutual exchange on {shared problem}.
5. Cold email to recruiter at a target company
Write a 100-word cold email to a recruiter at {company} for a {role} position not yet posted. Format: who I am in 1 line, what I built that maps to their team, ask for an intro to the hiring manager. Be specific.
6. Reach-out to a manuscript author
I read a paper by {author} on {topic}. Write a 70-word email asking 1 specific clarifying question about their methodology. No "I am a big fan", just go to the question.
7. Conference follow-up
I met {person} at {conference}. Write a 60-word follow-up email referencing the specific thing we talked about. Ask 1 follow-up question rather than proposing a meeting.
8. Asking for a referral (not yet applied)
I am about to apply to {company} for {role}. Write a 100-word DM to a contact who already works there. Ask if they would be willing to refer me. Show what I have done that fits the team. Make it easy to say no.
9. Asking for a referral (already applied)
I already applied to {company} for {role}. Write an 80-word DM to a contact there asking if they'd be willing to flag my application internally. Include my req number and 1 line on why I am a fit.
10. Re-engaging a dormant contact
I last talked to {person} {years} ago. Write a 90-word "back in touch" email. Open with what I am working on now, ask 1 specific update about them, propose nothing in this message.
11. Internship outreach (student)
I am a {year} student looking for a {field} internship. Write a 90-word cold email to someone working in that field. Format: 1 line on what I have built that is relevant, 1 ask (advice or referral), 1 sentence on why their path stood out.
12. Investor cold outreach (founder)
I am a {stage} founder. Write a 120-word cold email to a {fund} investor. Format: 1 line on the company, 1 line on the unfair advantage, 1 line on traction, 1 ask (15-min call), 1 line on why this fund specifically.
13. Post-reply continuation
They replied to my cold DM. Now write the 70-word follow-up that proposes a specific time, specific 3 questions for the call, and removes any friction (calendar link, time zone, format).
Common mistakes
- Generic “let’s connect” with no reason — reads as a sales bot fishing for everyone
- Asking for a 30-min call when 15 minutes would do — and nobody has the 30
- No specific reason for picking this person, just a copy-paste line
- Excessive flattery before the ask — signals “I want something”
- Following up without adding new information (“just bumping this”)
- Asking for the biggest favor (intro to CEO) on the first message instead of building up
Related
- Cover letter prompts
- Recruiter reply prompts
- LinkedIn bio prompts
- Self intro prompts
- Interview thank-you prompts
- How to Use AI to Write Cold Networking Emails: Specific, Short, One Clear Ask
- AI Networking Follow-Up Email: Specific Reference, Clear Next Step
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